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Friday, November 28, 2025

catching up with family - the usual thanksgiving

Pup trying to let his friend in to have some bird and pie. "Please, sir"

Best thanksgiving ever- relaxed, delicious and the kids were all happy. Everyone going off into their adult lives well grounded. Interesting choices. Keeka is off to Australia , freelancing her art business.  Maddy piloting the big ones through the sky as well as teaching in a  Montessori school in her free time. Also planning trip to Ireland.  Austin applying   to eco -architectural program , three options, U of Dub, L.A. or the Netherlands. Of course consensus was Netherlands. Max , having quit his job in DC is now at Columbia in Medical school,  a 3.7% acceptance rate,  difficult to get into but you know Max! genius child.   He is loving it so far, cutting up cadavers...He did not carve the turkey. Dennis did , with a hack saw. Non surgical.

Wayne and Carol getting everything sorted and could leave tomorrow , but Carole has drum lessons planned  in February. They will leave in March. Portugal sounds very appealing hearing their enthusiastic  stories. A mellow country, friendly and lively , and best, affordable.

Kim will teach for two more years. This year she has an easier group of children than she has had in the past. Because she is "Teacher of the Century", classes assigned to her are generally the children who need more "teaching"  from a highly skilled person. It is exhausting, so this year she caught a break !   She only has two children who present challenges, one who has childhood gratification syndrome and one autistic child . It is like a vacation for Kim. 

Dave is still piloting and will be until he is given the boot for being old, a long time from now. He loves his job and is paid very well. Gravity or failed engines have not had their way with him.

Erik, still in Portland , rides his bike to work  on the path in between ICE headquarters and Tesla  dealership, both of which  have well attended protests daily, biking through clouds of tear gas. Used to it, old hat. In the evening he  bikes around to donate food to homeless and to stock the  outdoor refrigerators in his area ,maintained by the owners of the properties- A food bank. of sorts. 

Dennis's brother could not come, last minute heart issues. 

(Wayne's large head and everyone else's tiny heads) 



Dave helping out the granny.
How many blogs and posts will look just like these today ?

Anyway, looks like we are on to Christmas-clomping along through Fairhaven. Gourds replaced by cedar boughs and glitter. 

The next get together may not be until summer. It will be a modest Christmas. I asked Erik what I should get from the Northpole for him this year. He said..."nothing, perhaps a smile, a nod, a wink and a bottle of Baileys.".OK, can. do! Simple.

PS- Erik. tells of young man murdered at Burning man- the murdered guy was Russian , the killer will never be found...when Erik returned to work , his coworker (from Ukraine) said " thank you, Erik, I knew that you would kill for me...."  and everyone had a good laugh, except for the dead guy.
 

17 comments:

  1. Your Thanksgiving pictures look nothing like mine as the only table decorations we had were the leaves that fell from the oak trees. Presentation is not my talent. But your table is beautiful as are all of the people sitting around it.

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    1. Youth is always good looking....attraction for breeding I guess that is how it works. It was a pretty great dinner this time- everything went smoothly and joyfully - there was wine involved. I stashed an expensive bottle that had been a gift when Dennis retired. Saving it for , I dunno, something- one of the kids pulled it out and put it with the other bottles and there it is , half full...what to do with it?

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  2. Your Thanksgiving sounds perfect. The table is beautifully decorated, and I love the place settings. I'm no cook but I love, love, love the presentation. Your little white lights add nicely to the ambience.
    Great conversation and a wonderful feast with good wine makes for an ideal family gathering. Each family member is thriving and happy. That makes me happy, and I'm not even a relative!

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    1. "not a relative" we don't know that for sure, do we? Stranger things have happened. Lights in winter are essential. I would fill my house with fairy lights if it was agreeable to the man....

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  3. Beautiful table you set. That's quite the groaning board. It's cool that you have that much family and you all get along.

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    1. I really scored on the table cloths and place mats! Affordable and pretty. We all love each other dearly- watch out for one another fiercely! Dennis's ex- wife , step kids, new spouses, we all just jell. Pretty exceptional, I guess. it is great to know. that there are people that will go to bat for you!

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  4. Your Design-Intelligence Quotient (DQ)
    is well into Genius range! ⭐️⭐️⭐️



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    1. Now what to do with all of the autumn gourds? They seem to last forever- I have one that Emily gave me three years ago, dried out of course but still looking splendid!

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    2. Are the gourds fresh enough still that you could scoop them out and make them into water carriers or vases
      … or DOLL HOUSES???

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  5. What truly wonderful photos of Thanksgiving! Warmed my heart to see them! JanF

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    1. If the photos had sound, you might not think these were heart warming! This family is LOUD!

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  6. Very nicely done! Not surprised. Complete with raccoon.

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    1. next year is there is a next year i will have what you had for dinner!

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  7. Very nice gathering, especially in light of all the changes coming to your fam, people moving on to new chapters in their lives. Well done!

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  8. What a great get-together. Making good memories for all involved!

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  9. Big beautiful accomplished family! Our Thanksgiving (and all) family gatherings are oh so casual. We don't stand on ceremony. It's enough to be together.

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